If the Web is any indicator and it's surely as good as any other ponyplay is becoming ever more popular, though it still appears to be unknown, or at least unacknowledged, by the mainstream. Elizabeth Elson's Born in a Barn is a model documentary on the subject, a respectful study that pays homage to the subculture without sugarcoating or sensationalizing it. The film works as both a primer for the uninitiated and a celebration for the participants. It looks at several couples and individuals at rest and play, perhaps most notably "Trigger," a 40-something real estate agent who holds outdoor seminars for enthusiasts, in which he explains that "ponyplay can be foreplay but most do it for power exchange." Scenes of Trigger, who's robust but no Atlas, trotting around with women on his shoulders have a quirky sweetness. The varieties of roles, from handler to various "breeds" of ponies and horses, are discussed, as are the kinds of activities that occur in this world, which may or may not include sex. And the roles seem surprisingly fluid, with power exchanges often working both ways without the hard top/bottom dichotomy idealized in SM fantasy. Some players dream of living full-time in "ponyspace" the film shows "human horse stalls" being built for this purpose while others treat the whole thing as sexual theater, to be experienced episodically before returning to "real life." The overriding feeling seems to be the urgent desire to be released from the complexities and disappointments of being human "The needs of a horse are simple and basic," says Trigger. The world could do worse than operate on this esoteric group's "animal principles" of "honesty, loyalty, and trust," as the dire events that followed this festival on November 2 show.
November 2004 | Issue 46
Copyright © 2004 by Gary Morris
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